People choose to treat us a certain way, but we too have choices.
I often have people say in my readings that "I wish he/she or they would change". No one can be forced to change, they must want to of change. The question you need to ask yourself is 'Do I really want to be around someone who I have to try and change?" I believe if you need to change someone or people than you really why are you with them? They are obviously not suited to your life and or toxic for your life.
Don't waste your time or energy trying to change people, just accept they are who they are and make the decision if they are right or wrong for your life path and journey.
Love & Light